One of my book clubs is currently reading Lessons in Chemistry by Bonnie Garmus. If you are a child of the 60s, you will understand the attitudes, gender roles, stereotypes, and the role of women. Many of you will recognize the woman in this photo from television or your own homes. My mother was ahead of her time and refused to settle for the expectations placed on women of the time.

Spoiler alert! Toward the end of Lessons in Chemistry, Elizabeth Zott resigns from her role on Supper at 6. Before she goes, she updates the audience on the progress of Mrs. George Fillis - she not only completed her premed studies, she also was accepted to medical school. Elizabeth Zott said, “Congratulations, Mrs. George — no, I’m sorry — Marjorie Fillis. We never doubted you for a second.'‘

Elizabeth Zott went on to say, “I’m betting that Majorie will agree, that the hard part wasn’t returning to school, but rather having the courage to do so.” Toward the end of the book, there is a passage that really stood out to me:

“Whenever you start doubting yourself,” said Elizabeth, turning to the audience, “whenever you feel afraid, just remember, Courage is the root of change — and change is what we’re chemically designed to do. So, when you wake up tomorrow, make this pledge. No more holding yourself back. No more subscribing to others’ opinions of what you can and cannot achieve. And no more allowing anyone to pigeonhole you into useless categories of sex, race, economic status, and religion. Do not allow your talents to lie dormant, ladies. Design your own future. When you go home today, ask yourself what you will change. And then get started.”

Thank you, mom, for setting an example for me and giving me the courage to never settle and follow my dreams.